A video of actress Rachael Lerman trying to rizz a man up has gone viral on social media platforms
Rachael Lerman has taken over Twitter/X and Instagram after a video of her was shared on X with the caption ‘rizz ’em with the ’tism’. Owing to Rachael’s quirky nature, smooth pickup lines and random singing as she tried to impress a man in the video which featured a string of other women suitors as well, the actress has since gone viral.
Who is actress Rachael Lerman as her ‘rizz ’em with the ’tism’ video goes viral on Instagram and is she really autistic or has ADHD
Plot twist. Here is her TikTok and she’s 53 years old https://t.co/vv1cjsU2Wd
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While the video’s caption, ‘rizz ’em with the ’tism’ seemed to allude towards Rachael having autism, many were quick to call out the fact that she was just quirky and fun and wasn’t autistic. While some also claimed that the singer and model could be having ADHD, Rachael who has also shared the video on her Instagram profile has not yet affirmed if she’s autistic or has ADHD which saw her burst out into a random song after fixing the bespectacled man’s hair in the video.
Rachael Lerman who is an actress, singer and model as per her Instagram bio was born on 26 January and while her DOB isn’t known, she is likely between 25-35 years with her height not known either.
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The phrase “rizz ’em with the ’tism” went viral across social media, particularly among Autistic communities on TikTok, where it came to reflect a blend of charisma and neurodivergent expression. It referred to instances when someone appeared to charm others through behaviors associated with Autism. These behaviors included intense eye contact, giggling, fidgeting, or quirky mannerisms that, in a neurotypical context, might be perceived as flirtatious.
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For many, the phrase served as a form of self-aware, even self-deprecating humor, allowing Autistic individuals to explain confusing social encounters where their actions had been misread. Some found it helped articulate how their traits—often shaped by masking or compensating for neurotypical expectations—could be misunderstood as romantic interest. The concept resonated strongly, especially with those who had repeatedly faced misinterpretations in social situations.
Its viral spread was widely attributed to TikTok content creators, who created the term in 2023. Within the community, the phrase occasionally took on an empowering tone, offering a light-hearted way to discuss traits like passion, sincerity, or loyalty that often defined their unique style of connection. Merchandise reflecting the phrase began circulating, with some individuals embracing it as a tool for awareness and identity.
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However, not everyone viewed the trend favorably. Some critics raised concerns that the phrase, though intended as humorous, risked reinforcing harmful stereotypes. There were fears it could infantilize Autistic individuals by implying they lacked agency in romantic dynamics. Others worried that if attraction to someone on the spectrum was framed as unusual, it subtly echoed the idea that Autistic people were inherently less desirable.
The phrase’s darker implications became more pronounced when viewed through the lens of safety and trauma. Feminine-presenting Autistic individuals were statistically far more likely to experience sexual violence, and many advocates feared that normalizing flirtation rooted in misunderstood behaviors could further endanger them. Some noted that misunderstandings stemming from ’tism rizz had led to uncomfortable or even traumatic experiences.
Studies indicated that Autistic women, due to late or missed diagnoses, were less likely to receive early support, leaving them more vulnerable in adulthood. Many had developed extensive masking strategies, often without recognizing the toll it took. Their childhoods were frequently shaped by compliance and pressure to suppress discomfort, which left some unaware of their own trauma or unclear boundaries.
Because of this history, certain members of the community found the phrase insensitive—believing it made light of behaviors and misinterpretations that had left lasting emotional scars. The context of ’tism rizz, while humorous on the surface, risked minimizing real risks faced by those already navigating a world not designed for them.